Neptune’s Dependency

Question: I have a two-part question relating to clingy, dependent people. 1.) What house placements and aspects are indicative of someone who is likely to be very clingy and totally dependent on others for emotional and other types of support? 2.) Similarly, what aspects/placements are associated with attracting such people? I’m asking because the only women I seem to attract are those who are so emotionally needy that they drain nearly every ounce of energy out of me; I’m trying…