Do you find yourself asking: – Why did I attract him or her? Why is this repeating in my life? Learning about your shadowy projections shows you the hidden parts that badly need integrating within yourself. The concept of the Shadow, a term coined by the eminent psychiatrist, Jung, can shed a great deal of light on repetitive patterns in relationships and why they occur. In the case of a powerful love projection, it can occur as an utter dependence...

Question: What is the meaning of this relationship with my son? For instance, with Chiron opposition Chiron. When two Chirons are activated in synastry between two people it reflects many difficult experiences from earlier phases of both of your lives. Echoes of the past that haunt you, particularly incidents and experiences which left you feeling unhappy, hurt, or powerless in the face of life’s unfairness. Chiron to Chiron can be a constant reminder of pain and conflict from your life...

Imagine you are a bonfire. You need the right wood as your foundation. The bad, rotten, wrong type of wood won’t help your flame roar bright. The right wood, however, and you will become in awe of those wooden Earthy types you’ll encounter who keep your bonfire alight. Some Earth types are romantic interests and others will become life long friends that you can really depend on upon. Personally, Fire wants to live a life of extraordinary adventure, soul-igniting fun...

Question: It seems like a no-brainer marker for gaslighting in synastry with a Mercury-Neptune aspect in my own chart. In which case, I’m just screwed with anyone near my own age, since I already have them widely square natally. I can’t believe I’d be gaslit by an entire age group, though. Any thoughts? The Slower Moving Planets to Personal Ones With the slower moving planets if you have an outer planet (Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto) in a difficult aspect to...

Question: What does it mean to have Venus falling in someone’s 12th House. What are the experiences? Steven Forrest said that with transposed houses, basically, the other person adds Venus qualities to your 12th house. It’s actually enormous for artistic collaborations, and you’ll come out of the closet – spiritually, artistically, or in emotional ways. With Venus’ rays, it helps bring forth artistic, musical, poetical abilities, and so you may relinquish old dreams. When someone stirs your 12th house, unworldly...

  With planetary overlays in synastry, where someone else’s planets fall in your natal chart, they’re extremely challenging to interpret in the right way. Whereas interactions between two planets are easier to read. This is, for the most part, due to the planets being both ‘givers’ and ‘receivers.’ Yet, with planets transposed (or transferred) over each other’s houses in synastry, well, there’s a big difference. Now, Cafe Astrology voiced the same concerns when attempting to interpret planetary overlays: Over the...

Question: Is this a good aspect if someone’s venus is in your 1st house? The Venus person looks at you from the outside and probably thinks you don’t need to read a book about feeling gorgeous inside and out, because you‘re the epitome of that very thing. They’ll swear that you hung the moon. Your face could launch a multitude of ships. They’ll tell you that your body looks banging in those jeans! The Venus person is attracted to your mannerisms, style, and the...

You will usually be drawn to people with similar energies on your Descendant, and this includes the sign, planets, and aspects. It is the realm of  “others,” and represents one to one relationships, partners, and the public. It symbolizes the traits and characteristics valued in individuals apart from yourself, and your open enemies will most likely show the coloration of your 7th house, which opposes you. Liz Greene says your perfect match is found in this sphere of the chart,...