Question: With a Venus-Saturn affliction in my chart, I’ve felt many instances where love or my expression of it is restrained or even painful at times. However, I’m wondering if this aspect is really the one associated with all of this pain, whereas the situation calls for you to come to accept pain as a normal…...
Question: I have a real love/hate relationship with this aspect because I lay the blame at its feet for some of the highest highs and also the lowest lows of my life. In relationships, I’m constantly in a spiral of idealization, usually mutual. And invariably either I or the other party come crashing down from the…...
While some of us see only eyeballs when looking into a partner’s eyes, Venus-Neptune sees their soulmate. The world drops away and two souls blend into one. A transformation occurs – the perfect dress, the handsome prince, the fairy godmother, but their magical chariot, turns back into a pumpkin, and the original sublime feeling wanes. While…...
Question: Venus-Pluto wants something or someone so very badly, so intensely, so extremely and so completely that all rational thought can fly north for the winter. It doesn’t matter whether what you want is free to come to you or whether it belongs to someone else—you can’t help craving it? Yes, often with Venus-Pluto you can…...
Is Venus-Jupiter in aspect too restless in love to settle down? Are these people cheaters in relationships? It comes from the fact that Venus and Jupiter are the most unfaithful gods in Greek mythology. Jupiter was often unfaithful, and many of the myths concerning Jupiter pertain to his extramarital adventures with goddesses and mortal women. In…...
Those with Venus-Uranus aspects have rock and roll behavior in their love lives and are a little more sensation-seeking than the average individual. Uranus is the planet associated with thrills, excitement, suddenness, and out of the blue activity. So when this activity influences Venus, the planet of all things connected to love and erotism, well, it…...
You may be feeling that the New Year is the time to quit whining about your bad karma in relationships. To know, that you are not “fated” to be alone, you are not “fated to have to settle for a series of failed relationships. To understand that your task is not to seek love, but merely…...
Question: As someone with a Venus/Pluto aspect in my Natal Chart, the combination has always intrigued me. In my case, Venus is conjunct Pluto. As one might presume, my interpersonal relationships are very much infused with themes of possession, obsession, devotion, eroticism, and crises. The only relationships (platonic or romantic) that attract me are those of…...
Question: I read an article recently describing Venus/Pluto women as having the potential to be a “black widow”; basically meaning they use men up and/or lead them to their demise. I have the Venus/Pluto opposition, and at first I took issue with this. I have NEVER intentionally hurt someone, but when I thought about it, I…...
Liz Greene: Neptune, unlike Venus, tends towards chronic unhappiness, for nothing in this world, no matter how beautiful, can compensate for the lost waters of Paradise. Two characteristics of Venus-Neptune are “divine discontent” in matters of love, and interference with the capacity for personal happiness. If the lover is not perfect one feels betrayed: if the…...