A couple with the Sun square Venus in synastry can experience a strong attraction to one another, resulting in an abundance of passion and liking, as well as a radiating of warmth and affection. In interpretation, the aspect receives some criticism, primarily because it is the square contact, and it is believed that the partnership is vain. Vanity that values superficial relationships over genuine empathy for one another.On the other hand, some astrologers describe it as an intensely romantic attraction.
All colourful interpretations aside, on a human level, it’s basically highlighting a conflict between self-identity and valuing one another for your various wants and tastes in life. It is really about accepting some differences that may cause discord and conflict. There may be a clash if one does not completely accept the other’s emotional values or does not feel validated as a separate individual. It denotes one partner’s goals, life purpose, and personality clashing with the other’s values, as well as what they find appealing and desirable.
In another sense, there can be strong affection and an appreciation for the attractiveness of the other. As long as romantic idealising isn’t taken too far, one person’s affection can really boost the confidence of the other. It is one of the combinations that astrologers warn against being overly sweet and being seduced into overindulging in affectionate responses, both physically and emotionally. It calls for something healthier, more balanced in the love department.
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Venus represents our capacity for whatever we deem pleasurable, appealing, and deserving. Venus is the planet of harmony, and in a man’s horoscope, it represents his ideal womanhood on an emotional, physical, and spiritual level. It represents a woman’s basic femaleness and how she performs her feminine role in her horoscope. The Sun rules an individual’s basic life goals and the concept of manhood; regardless of who is the Sun in this interaction, it is a masculine energy in the horoscope. There’s a bit of ego and flirting going on here, and one of them may be blocking the other from getting the desired response.
Everything comes down to fundamental values and identity, two critical aspects of any relationship. Perhaps there is some ego-flattering over-affection. The contact is not intended to be a major negative for a synastry connection; rather, it represents some level of discord with life goals and ethics, as well as wounded pride and hurt feelings. When things are working out positively and with effort, the couple realises that there is a lot of love and affection between them, even if their aspirations and desires are fundamentally different, and they can learn to not take things so personally. The Sun is warm and glorious, and Venus is desirable and attractive; if they treat each other differently than they wish to be treated, they can evolve into the beau and the flatterer, and this combination can be filled with personality, charm, inner and outer beauty, and a desire for harmony.
Even if the personality and style aren’t quite in sync, there’s a lot to be gained. Show each other the things that make you both unique and beautiful, and wonderful things will happen in your relationship; it will truly blossom into something worthwhile. The sign compatibility is always worth analysing, especially when it comes to personal planetary aspects. For instance, she may have a bold, brash, and outgoing personality, whereas his values are more reserved, sensitive, and emotional (Aries and Cancer). His personality may be more objective and scientific in nature, whereas she values the esoteric, deep mysteries, and unseen (Aquarius and Scorpio). It is common for such clashes to occur in a partnership. Wisdom teaches us that deeply loving someone for who they are provides us with strength, self-worth, and courage in life.
“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect—you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break—her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.” ― Bob Marley