The Anti-Flirt Club: Aries, Taurus, Gemini and Cancer – Part 1

In the early 1920s, a group of women tired of a continuous stream of harassment from men in automobiles on street corners started an organization – The Anti-Flirt Club. The rules are super smart, these women really had their heads screwed on and the list is completely funny and reusable today. I have compiled the astrological sign love profiles to follow. It’s probably more of a relationship style reading than how the each one flirts. However, the important thing is to save your flirting and love energy on people that are worth it. Here are the Anti-Flirt rules and love profile to ensure  that you make wiser choices. Although depending on age, you learned them all a long time ago, but they are pure gold.

1. Don’t flirt: those who flirt in haste oft repent in leisure
2. Don’t accept rides from flirting motorists – they don’t all invite you in to save a walk.
3. Don’t use your eyes for ogling – they were made for worthier purposes
4. Don’t go out with men you don’t know – they may be married, and you may be in for a hair-puling match.
5. Don’t wink – a flutter of one eye may cause a tear in the other.
6. Don’t smile at flirtatious strangers – save them for people you know.
7. Don’t annex all the men you can get – by flirting with many you may lose out on the one.
8. Don’t fall for slick, dandified cake eater – the unpolished gold of a real man is worth more than the gloss of a lounge lizard.
9. Don’t let elderly men with an eye for flirtation pat you on the shoulder and take a fatherly interest in you. Those are usually the kind who want to forget they are fathers.
10. Don’t ignore the man you are sure of while you flirt with another. When you return to the first one you may find him gone.

Now you know the rules, here are your love profiles strengths and weaknesses and read what you deadly assassins are like in love.



The Aries flirt has a playful enthusiasm, passion, and innocence, but also an impulse to leap into the unknown. Hence, they will take a risk with their heart, and cannot fail to live life to the full. The Arian type is all about going beyond the frontiers. Most people are attracted to them like a moth to the flame. Moreover, they are in tune with the moment, and everything happens in the eternal present, and the first flush of infatuation has them falling headlong in love. Sometimes trouble follows with rash engagements, and a love duel in the relationship or they get easily bored. A good deal of sparring is necessary and they need someone who will offer a challenge and push back.

Another important part of their relating style is they have to be the first and only one in a partnership. The Aries lover needs exclusivity, but the hunt and the pursuit of a new lover are what set the heart on fire; there is a good deal of competitiveness and this is often a strong feature in the love life. Usually, a lover needs to shower them with gifts and surprises to prove to them their love comes first. There is no holding back, and they are ardent, warm-hearted, frank, quickly aroused and can be very forceful in their approach. They find those flirtations irresistible and are driven to win. They also possess a great deal of magnetism and know how to make both love and war. A love story for Aries is filled with heroic acts and a potential partner must fight with honor to be in their arms. Aries is worth the battle, and the heart must be won and attracted by a show of strength and drive and ambition. Yes, they like the knight on the white charger rescuing a damsel in distress. It is a love that loves the adventure, danger, and risk-taking. An incurable romantic, they are definite, bold and uncomplicated emotionally and can meet a problem dead on and face it.


The Taurus flirts in a slow and seductive and deliberate way by forming strong attachments. Once committed, they make a wonderfully loyal and romantic partner, and have an affectionate sensuality, enjoying the lavish and sumptuousness of their surroundings. They are very physical and have an easy grace, and like to be demonstrative in love. Moreover, they are the embodiment of beauty, and possess a deep, steady nature, and are relaxing to be around. The dependable Taurean does things in their own time, and in their own way, and can be exceptionally enduring in their affections. Furthermore, they will often become like a favorite sweater, with all their warmth and familiarity. However, fluffy is not in their character, as they are strong, intense and often enjoy good, quality sex, longing for deep satisfaction.

Taurus will often attract through a heady perfume and likes to be surrounded by many comforts and also loves to have quality and may marry into money. In fact, they prefer to see guarantees in love and so investments, joint bank accounts and purchases guaranteeing security are important because their love is worth the investment. They need a love that is real and tangible and is not easily moved. Security is a must, and solid rock foundations and cash is really only one tangible show of affection, they need stability and a love that will last the test of time. For the individual love has to be true and deep and real and faithful. The Taurus often wants to settle down early, and they also want the old fashioned love story, but must know the outlines of the plot and what is already known. One must be forewarned that Taurus is one possessive lover, and ownership is everything. They can be physically violent if pushed too far, broken promises and straying lovers are enough to send the bull charging to attack and it can be upsetting for everybody concerned. Love has to be very present and touch is a powerful aphrodisiac as they are extremely sensitive, and It also is said that they have the lowest divorce rate and even if these statistics are perhaps thrown out randomly, there may be some truth. Taureans hate change under any circumstances, and variety is definitely not the spice of life, and usually once they mate; it’s for life.


The Gemini flirts by making connections and enabling communication to take place. A Gemini loves the breathless, heady first days of a relationship. The person charms with their language, and with their love of words and ideas. Even more so, they are so genuinely interested, bubbly and lively and are completely enchanting. The individual is always analyzing their surroundings, and the chief characteristic of a Gemini is an overplus of intellectual energy and a craving for diversity. They stimulate, refresh and revive others, and often like short, quick flights, possessing an eager curiosity and when there is nothing fresh to offer dart off again.

Generally, they refuse to grow older, and everything is a potentially new puzzle, and they are drawn to anything different, amusing, or interesting. The person also has an instinct for what is new. The light and breezy Gemini can fall into deep moods, but it never lasts for long and they are entwined in ever-changing emotional states, but mostly skim across feelings, and they try to understand things from an intellectual viewpoint. A Gemini has a lot to say for themselves, and are never short of an opinion, observation and remark. However, sometimes Gemini loves to play around with the truth, change things around, and make things more amusing. They love playing intellectual games, but that is all, they attach no emotional weight or intentional harm on these mischievous little games.

Gemini does well with someone who can love all their different sides, their humor, jokes and animated beauty. There is nothing still about this gorgeous creature. They will often be hard to catch as there is an evasiveness, along with a childlike heart that will never be fully captured in a possessive sense but given freedom of expression this lover knows how to fly. Sometimes they are plagued by besotted lovers due to their flirtatiousness, mischievousness and through their inability to be pinned down – it makes them all the more desirable. The Gemini often requires a communicative partner, that is responsive and loves to talk, read and discuss. They are a breath of life, stepping lightly, and even though attracted to the light, they also love the mental complexity and figuring things out keeps them mentally alive.


The Cancer flirts subtly, concealing their soft inner parts within a hard shell. Being drawn to the intuitive world of dreams and imagination, they are very romantic and dreamy in this sense. The individual can quickly identify the needs of others, with their great sensitivity.  A peek inside and we often find they have incredible inner strength, loving wholeheartedly and can be loyal and dependable. The person needs hugs, words of affection and frequent reminders of  being supported. This is a love needs to be based on a real sympathy and understanding.

It is easy to hurt their feelings, as they are tender. Cancer is also wonderful at perceiving the emotional depths within a person, and the gaze is always turned inwards, deep into the soul, and their insights are often incredibly accurate. The wisdom that is drawn from the unconscious can be channeled into art, writing, and poetry making them exceptionally creative. The Cancerian can suffer from mood swings and needs an emotional retreat, and is security orientated, self-preserving and a home-base is everything. They tend to more defensive than offensive in arguments and are quick to defend those they love and are extremely protective since they possess powerful maternal instincts.

In astrology, it is thought that Cancer generates emotions, Scorpio collects and Pisces absorbs and reflects them. As a lover, they can become strongly attached, and when hurt in love there can be a tendency to brood over past hurts, and the past is a deep thread running through the entire life. However, they are completely caring, with plenty of kindnesses. Sometimes there can be a lot of dependencies in relationships when Cancer gets clingy, insecure, jealous and possessive. Most of all they like to nurture and be nurtured, others may call them “too sensitive” at times, but there is no other that cares as deeply about those they call family. There can be old-fashioned values and they feel good when there is a sense of continuity with the past. In fact, they love to keep mementos around to remind them of the things they cherish and it represents a psychological need to anchor themselves in the familiar.