Those with Venus in GEMINI love in a light hearted way and have a lovely sparkling quality about them. The type is generally social, witty, clever and fun to have around. In many ways, they are like the social butterfly flitting from flower to flower. Still, Venus in Gemini has been accused of being incorrigible flirts, because they enjoy the company of others so much. In love, they are more interested in the intelligence of a person, and they are usually attracted to those who like to communicate and like phone calls, cards and love letters.
Venus in Gemini loves language and the written word and they also love to share their thoughts with others. This may be the placement of someone who enjoys reading romance novels, who are inclined to talk about other people’s relationships, and have a penchant for matchmaking. Gemini enjoys variety and movement in their relationship and their flexibility keeps them youthful and fresh. Lovers have to be interesting and have the desire to learn new things. Intelligence might be on their top list of qualities of what they are looking for in a partner. Someone who never talks, surprises them or asks questions can leave them feeling bored and restless.
Others may consider them to be superficial and inconsistent and being a dualistic sign sometimes they do have more than one lover. However, if there are planets in water signs and/or earth signs it tends to balance out this flirtatious tendency. Gemini hates possessiveness and they need a social life and these people love lightly and need a variety of contacts in order to satisfy their intense curiosity about people. Venus in Gemini wants to be friends with everyone and they are charming, witty, and make delightful companions as long as you don’t try to clip their wings.
The Venus in Gemini person relates to other people in a very open, friendly way. They are naturally attracted to anyone who symbolises new experiences or knowledge. Because they are open to all the possibilities of life, they are open to, and accepting of, the differences in all people. They are colour blind, so to speak. They are able to relate to people in a very free way devoid of prejudice. They are quite skilled at drawing people out of themselves. By Jeff Green, Pluto Volume Two
Venus in Gemini seeks a multitude of friendships, cultural activities and travelling with loved ones. Sometimes a youthful partner is sought, and someone who shares their love of lively conversations, enjoys playing games, and keeps all social situations ‘light’.